Bryan, Mike and others of the same inclination
Whilst I share your views in many ways, I think Bob has a point about "simply" ignoring the head bickerer
I tried to reason with our friend quite a while ago (a bit like Roel did recently - but nowhere near as eloquently!), but it got me nowhere - I just got included in the list of targets. So I decided ignoring was the best option and it seems to work - for me at least! I think NCV has decided on a similar policy despite being provoked much more than me.
So how about we all try it for a week or two and see what occurs?
Tim